Remember those old commercials? I totally do! And they were from before a time when I was handling grown up responsibilities like a house, husband and business.
Since then, our lives have only become more busy and more hectic. And our need for that bathtub, bubbles, and beverage has only grown.
Here are some tips to help you claim that time and space in your home and your day.
My most popular tip is the do not disturb sign. So many of my customers use this one with great joy! If your family isn't great at respecting yours (and most aren't so don't feel bad about this) make a sign or a door hanger.
Allow your kids (husbands included) to do the same for a pre-defined amount of time per day or per week so they feel empowered to claim their alone time and will be less likely to intrude on yours. - For example 10 year old Johnny is allowed to put out his door hanger for 15 minutes once a week. You won't disturb him during this time. This also builds a surprising level of trust and respect with your kids.
Let them know that your time will not exceed (fill in the blank with your needed time - 1 hour, 2 hours, half an hour) and that they will get your full attention when that time is up.
If that doesn't work, the ever popular lock is another great suggestion :)
In a bathroom or vanity area, we take time to look good and feel even better. Having a place where we can pamper ourselves can help us relax and tap into our playfulness.
Important elements:
- Soft lighting
If you like to read in the tub, ample light is needed
If you just like to soak and relax, super soft light is perfect, perhaps some candles. - A tub to soak in and some great bath products
It doesn't have to be a jacuzzi, just enough to get a great soak
Fabulous bath beads, oil or bubbles are great for that "calgon take me away" experience. - A tray or table
Must be within arms reach of said tub
Nothing worse than having to stand half way up when you're soaking happily away to reach your book or beverage - Great towels
You don't need to upgrade all your linens, but a couple really fluffy fabulous towels just for your special escape days are definitely in order. (a great item to add to your birthday or Holiday wish list)
Here are a couple of sample spaces to give you an idea.
To create this look:
| Full Price | As a party guest | As a Hostess with an average party* |
|
| 2 sconces | $120 | $60 (half price) | FREE |
| Glass Hurricane | $70 | $70 | $35 (half price) |
| 2 3 x 3 pillars | $22 | $22 | $11 (half price) |
| Total: | $212 | $152 | $46 |
To create this look:
| Full Price | As a party guest | As a Hostess with an average party* |
|
| 3 Forbidden Fruits jars | $75 | $75 | FREE |
| Forbidden Fruits Compact | $25 | $25 | FREE |
| 1 Box Large Tealights | $12 | $6 (half price) | FREE |
| Forbidden Fruits Reed Diffuser | $22.50 (half price) | $22.50 (half price) | $22.50 |
| Total: | $145 | $128.50 | $22.50 |
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